Showing posts with label cemetery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cemetery. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

Cemetery Reflections ~ Pain



Inscription:

LOUISA E.
Wife of
JAMES BURHAMS
Died
July 22, 1854
A. 25 yrs 11 ms
& 25 ds.


CEMETERY REFLECTIONS: What would the sleeping generations tell us about living? What would we go back and tell ourselves?

~Pain is the friction of life moving forward. But I don't know yet how to embrace it. Or whether we're supposed to embrace it at all.


(Featured on this stone: A beautiful rendition of weeping willow symbolism, signifying loss, sadness, and grief.)

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Cemetery Reflections ~ Touch



Inscription

MARY
Wife of Samuel Harris
Died
Jan. 23, 1863.
In the 73d year
of her age.



CEMETERY REFLECTIONS: What would the sleeping generations tell us about living? What would we go back and tell ourselves?

~Don't be afraid to touch, physically and figuratively. The distance bridged will be far more vast than the space your fingers reached.

Monday, October 06, 2008

Remember: Catherine Ann Norton



The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will hold our memory.

We can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. So please take a moment with me to remember....


CATHERINE ANN
WIFE OF
E.B.H. NORTON,
DIED
April 27th 1850
Aged 38 Years
1 mo. & 23 d.s.

Mourn not for me
My husband and children dear
For I am not dead
But only sleeping here
~E.H. Shands


When compared to the loss of the dead, the loss of the living seems twice as tragic. The power to listen, the power to love another. How often we throw these things away or deny them. The monuments of our anger and fear seem so insurmountable, but they fall with no more force than the air in our words.

One day a different monument will close over the ones we love. And a lifetime of words will fail to cut that stone.

Time is streaming through your fingers. Don't squander it.

Monday, September 01, 2008

Our Babe

My fascination with cemeteries began when I was 13 years old, I think. The reason is probably more bizarre than the fascination itself. Back then, I lived in East Aurora, New York. An idyllic village only a handful of minutes southeast of Buffalo. The rural roads and quiet town streets accommodated bicycles very well.

I was branching out on my new ten speed. Driveway to neighborhood. Neighborhood to railroad tracks. Finally, miles down to East Aurora itself.

Another person hatched in me that summer. Actually, you see him here oftentimes. I was driven to experience a lot more alone. Quiet places and late afternoon sunlight. One of the places I found myself visiting was a cemetery in town. In 1983 I stood under the huge oaks unsure why I was there, but somehow compelled to be nonetheless.

One particular gravestone called me back time and time again.

A baby's grave.

I could almost see the couple standing along the forest edge overlooking the creek below. The nameless stone somehow drenched the shadows in sadness.

Maybe it never occurred to me before that a baby could even die.



A little over a week ago, I stood there again.

If I thought I would brush by my old self in the cooling sunlight of East Aurora, I was mistaken.

He was standing quite comfortably in my shoes.

Twenty-five years later.

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Remember: Dr. William Darlington


The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will hold our memory.

We can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. So please take a moment with me to remember....


IN
MEMORY
OF
DR. WM. DARLINGTON
Born April 28th 1782.
Died April 23rd 1863.

Plantae Cestrienses,
quas
dilexit atque illustravit,
super Tumulum ejus
semper floreant

(My translation: Pitcher plants, which he loved and drew, will always bloom over his grave.)

Plate: By kind permission of his descendants,
the grave of
Dr. William Darlington
is under the care of
the Chester County Medical Society,
which was founded by him
in the year 1828.

Noted physician and botanist, Dr. William Darlington life's adventures included traveling to the East Indies, fighting in the War of 1812, establishing a natural history society, publishing books of botany, and serving as a Congressman. One of those eerie convergence moments came when I read that Dr. Darlington gave "the right and privilege to occupy his land for picnic purposes or pleasure grounds" to Judge Thomas Mellon, owner of the Ligonier Valley Railroad. That land eventually became Idlewild Park, an amusement park in western Pennsylvania that was a favorite place to visit not only for me, but also my parents as children. The park would not exist but for him.

Dr. Darlington had a pitcher plant named after him called a Darlingtonia. It looks like the carving on his gravestone.


Quite a bit came from this random find in a cemetery near West Chester, Pennsylvania.

Friday, March 07, 2008

Remember: Archibald McCall Holding



The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will hold our memory.

We can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. So please take a moment with me to remember....


Inscription:
Archibald
McCall
Holding
1862-1935

~~~
A touch of Ireland
Under a dead year's leaves
Dreaming of foam and oceans
Awaiting the blush of green

~~~

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Remember: Margaret Roberts


The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten.

We can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. So please take a moment with me to remember....


Inscription:
In
memory of
MARGARET ROBERTS.
Wife of John E. Roberts
Born June 27, 1803
Died November 28, 1879
Aged 76 years, 5 months & 1 day

Adieu my friends, weep not for me. Though often times my grace you see. But raise your minds to things above. Where all is joy and peace and love.


(Note: I did not plan this, but as I finished this post, I saw that Margaret died today. If you are the type of person to find signs in things, this one is hard to ignore.)


  St. Thomas Episcopal Church, Morgantown, Pennsylvania.

Friday, October 12, 2007

Cemetery Symbolism--Celtic Interlace



Over and under in an endless circle, the end disappears into the beginning. Celtic interlace evokes limitless green and fog clinging to dawn-wakened islands.

Perhaps it's more than a pattern, more than a stone-carver's ornamentation. The world is intertwined. There is no here cut from the hereafter, no past burned from the world we see. Water weaves from our breath to the clouds, and tears drip from the oceans we keep.

(Laurel Hill Cemetery, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania)

Friday, September 07, 2007

Remember: Rebecca Walker


The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten.

Let's give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. Please take a moment with me to remember....


Inscription:
Loving Remembrance

REBECCA WALKER
Died June 21, 1906
AGE 60 YEARS

'Tis hard to break the tender cord
When love has bound the heart
'Tis hard, so hard, to speak the words
We must forever part
Dearest loved one, we must lay thee
In the peaceful grave's embrace
But thy memory will be cherished
'Til we see thy heavenly face.

Friday, August 31, 2007

Caffeine Hourglass


Millionaire Hill
Laurel Hill Cemetery, Philadelphia

**********
"My friend owns this place."

"Really?"

"Yeah, it's a perfect place for a coffee shop. People get off their trains and bam, coffee right at the top of the stairs. Super convenient. And it's really good too."

"It certainly smells good. By the look of this line, your friend must be doing well."
**********


The Grave of Henry Disston

**********
"Not really. There's not much profit margin, and it's really hard to get good help."

"Do they blow off work? Quit?"

"They steal."

"You're kidding."

"No. I help him out by getting coffee here. If I see something fishy, I give him a call."

"Wow. Do they raid the register?"

"No, that would be too easy to catch. These folks know the little tricks. The main one is when they don't ring up the sale. They pocket the money and make their own change. Because it never hits the register, it never existed."

"Slick."

"My friend knows this place is busy as hell, but at the end of the day, the number of sales just don't make sense. It drives him nuts."
**********


A Princely Skeleton of Stone

**********
"Why doesn't he put in a camera?"

"He could, but it's expensive, and then someone has to review the tapes every day. It's a hassle."

"I guess so, but what if he put up a fake one? As long as the employees buy into it, that would do the trick."

"Yeah. Maybe."

"Excuse me. I didn't mean to yawn in your face."

"Tired?"

"Some Mondays, I wish I could just lay down and sleep forever."
**********

Friday, July 20, 2007

Stairs



Some evenings, the light would thin, and I searched for you.

Some evenings, I dreamed you died before me. Perhaps that's not so strange.

But over time, I learned.

You can't step beyond the Earth's rotation. You must take hold. Shadows are different than their makers, and stones never shed the cold.

Friday, June 15, 2007

Remember: Joseph Christie



The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten. Yet, we can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined.

So please take a moment with me to remember....


Inscription:
Suffer the children to come unto me
Joseph Christie
Son of Wm. W. L. and
Jennie Bennett
Born Sept. 27th, 1869
Died May 28th, 1872
In his 3rd Year


The porcelain toy-like ornaments and flowers are fixed to the stone. Perhaps the centerpiece was once daisies with the petals long disintegrated. Something about those object keep the presence of Joseph closer. I imagine him bored with his Sunday visit to the cemetery. I imagine him sitting down to play.




(Hibernia Methodist Church Est. 1841, Chester County, Pennsylvania)

Friday, June 01, 2007

May 31, 1889

I'd like to tell you a little story about my hometown of Johnstown, Pennsylvania. I took pictures during my visit back in October in anticipation of this post today.

Western Pennsylvania is a region of mountains, coal, and deep valleys. The cities became centers of iron and steel making, giving rise to the age of the robber barons. Pittsburgh was home to names like Carnegie, Mellon, Frick, and Knox.

The South Fork Fishing and Hunting Club was established near the towns of South Fork and St. Michael high in the mountains above the valley city of Johnstown. It was the playground of Pittsburgh's elite, and their cottages and clubhouse sat along the shores of Lake Conemaugh, a man-made lake two miles long and one mile wide.

The dam forming the lake had been part of a defunct canal system and had last been owned by the Pennsylvania Railroad. The Club altered and raised the dam. The spillway was blocked with screens to keep their prized fish from escaping. The soundness of the structure had long been questioned.

Beginning on May 28, 1889, a storm hit the region which dropped 6 to 10 inches of rain in 24 hours. Waters rose quickly, and soon water was spilling over the dam. All the inadequate safety measures failed, and the center of the earthen dam eroded. Four hundred acres of lake, 20 million tons of water, began emptying into the valley. The chief engineer could only watch.

(Standing on the breast of the dam and looking to the other side.)

The waters hit a viaduct crossing the downstream valley, and a new lake temporarily formed. When that viaduct failed, it was not a gradual release like the dam. It broke at once, sending a 60 foot wall of water with trees, houses, people, and animals roaring down the valley at 40 miles per hour.

(The position of the original dam.)

A stone railroad bridge still stands in Johnstown, which withstood the main wave. It didn't spare the city from wide destruction, however. In addition, a factory had been destroyed miles upstream, and spools of newly manufactured barbed wire mixed with the debris. At the stone bridge, a great debris field formed with many people becoming entangled in the barbed wire. Broken oil lamps lit a horrendous fire, and many people burned in the midst of the flood. In all, 2,209 died, including 99 entire families.

High in the hills overlooking Johnstown sits Grandview Cemetery. There, 777 unidentified victims were interred. I've always been struck by the rows and rows of blank stones. They form strange blinking patterns when you drive by.

Something about those empty stones haunts me. More than once, I sat at the foot of this monument after dark.

During those quiet nights, the moon glowed on the marble and mildewed white. I wish I had written my thoughts.

One of my ancestors was killed before the waters reached Johnstown. In a way, then, I suppose those waters touched me too. Thank you for taking a moment with me to remember him and hundreds upon hundreds of others who perished.

Friday, April 13, 2007

Margaret


************
Sept. 3, 1960

Dear Margie,

Mom arrived home O.K. She tells me you are looking for mail. Here is one that will take up some of your time.

The weather has been nice here for a few days. It's a pleasure. They tell me it is so beautiful up where you are. I can readily understand why you like staying up there.

Margie, you know my bull dog. I had to have him destroyed. It will be a month Oct. 5. He had dropsy and so full of water he could hardly walk. He was so small yet this apartment seems so large without him. I miss him so much. I had him 13 1/2 years. I can imagine I hear his little feet walk in the living room and it had me preparing him food. He was such a good dog. There will never be another one who will ever take his place. I will get another dog eventually, but not right now.

Well Margie, I think I will close. Keep well and enjoy the good air up where you are.

Sincerely and with love,
Grace A--

P.S. Please excuse the scribbling.
************
Sept. 3, 1960

Margie,

We arrived home safe and sound.

The house is still standing and needs a good cleaning.

Weather is nice here.

Love Mom R--
************

If you've been with me and The Clarity of Night for a while, you know that we have some mountain land in the Poconos/Catskills. In 2004, we added an important parcel to our forest so we could have direct road access. This parcel contains an abandoned cottage, which we now own. Margaret lived there alone, and alone is how she died. These are letters taken from her ransacked things.

I see her lying there with her hat and shoe, and no one is left to help her. No one is left to care.

Monday, March 26, 2007

The Philanthropist known as the Prisoner's Friend


Welcome to the grave of "The Philanthropist."

What an amazing sight. This was another one of those jam-on-the-brakes moments. It is the most highly carved and figured monument I've ever seen. For all of its opulence, however, the man's name is not recorded. Only his initials, W.J.M.


The figure of a woman sits in the rubble before the broken doors of a prison, which bears a striking resemblance to the historic Eastern State Penitentiary in Philadelphia. Eastern State was the world's first prison to abandon mere incarceration and punishment for spiritual reflection and change. Unfortunately, this system proved cruel in its own right. Prisoners were held in strict isolation. The prison's website explains: "To prevent distraction, knowledge of the building, and even mild interaction with guards, inmates were hooded whenever they were outside their cells. But the proponents of the system believed strongly that the criminals, exposed, in silence, to thoughts of their behavior and the ugliness of their crimes, would become genuinely penitent. Thus the new word, penitentiary." Benjamin Franklin and the Quakers were the architects of this system.



I found this monument late in the day when I was worried that the cemetery would lock its gates. When I saw this amazing monument, however, I had to stop. As I took pictures of the statues, the sun bled into a rich, orange sunset. This photo of the angel against the sky was taken when the light first began to turn. The overall shot at the top was taken last, just before I turned to leave.





I don't know anything more about this man, but I thought I leave you with these thoughts about him.


From the plaque: He has shown his love for his fellow men as the founder and president of colleges, hospitals, asylums, [ ]dispensaries, [ ] and mission societies, houses of industry and refuge for discharges and homeless prisoners. Through his strenuous exertions and indomitable perseverance over 50,000 prisoners....

UPDATE: Major kudos to Stephen Johnston for researching and discovering that W.J.M. is William James Mullen, "a jeweler, dentist and philanthropist, estimated [to have] rescued 50,000 people from unjust imprisonment. His monument depicts the door of Moyamensing prison with a recently freed woman on the steps. Mullen himself, in a suit and flowing classical cape, stands nearby on a pedestal." So much for my theory that the monument depicts Eastern State Penitentiary! Here is a lithograph of Moyamensing Prison, which no longer exists. Thanks Stephen!!



(Laurel Hill Cemetery, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania)

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Take a Walk With Me

Back in the fall, I visited the amazing Laurel Hill Cemetery of Philadelphia one late Saturday afternoon. It's like a secret world nestled on the edge of the inner city. Tough, crumbling neighborhoods lie just outside the walls.

Take a walk with me that day while I play the Scottish slow air, "Bonnie Strathyre," on the John Walsh Shuttle Pipes. Thanks for the company!

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

Remember: Martha Young



The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about our voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten. Yet, we can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined.

So please take a moment with me to remember...


Inscription:
MARTHA YOUNG
wife of
J.B. BROOMELL
NOVEMBER 1, 1818
MAY 26, 1907

I have fought the good fight, I have finished
my course, I have kept the faith. 2nd Tim. 4.7


I salute you, Martha, for having the strength to live a life of no regrets.
--Jason




Hephzibah Baptist Church, Chester County, Pennsylvania

Monday, November 13, 2006

Sarah Sleeps



I had never seen anything quite like it--a temple, an ornate colonade sheltering a sleeping lamb (beautifully preserved). My first thought was of a wealthy child.



But then, I saw the inscription. I was wrong. It was the grave of a young wife.

That's when monument changed for me. Here was her youth and beauty. The afternoon sun in her hair.

Inscription:
A Tribute
To the Memory of
SARAH ANN
The Lamented Wife of
George L. Harrison
Who "Fell Asleep"
Sunday, May 12, 1850
Aged 33 Years


I wonder how many times he stood on the very same ground and watched the light kneel down for her.



(Laurel Hill Cemetery, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania)

Friday, October 20, 2006

Remember: W. Brown


The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about our voices straining against the grind of years.

Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten. Not even our final words will be left to call out to the people flashing by. Yet, we can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined.

So please take a moment with me to remember...


Inscription:
IN
MEMORY
OF W. BROWN
DIED AUGUST
1844 AGED 75


(This folk art stone is carved from local field stone. Note the guidelines, decorated A's, and inverted 4's in 1844. Surviving stones of this type are uncommon and always draw me when I find them.)



(Hibernia Methodist Church Est. 1841, Chester County, Pennsylvania)

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Remember: Reuben Townsley


We cling to the strength of stone to fight the fear of being forgotten. So please take a moment to remember...

Inscription:
FATHER
REUBEN TOWNSLEY,
DIED
OCT. 30, 1891.
AGED 80 YEARS.

A precious one from us has gone,
A voice we loved is stilled;
A place is vacant in our home,
Which never can be filled.


~*~*~*~*~



(Hibernia Methodist Church Est. 1841, Chester County, Pennsylvania)