Showing posts with label remembrance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label remembrance. Show all posts

Monday, October 06, 2008

Remember: Catherine Ann Norton



The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will hold our memory.

We can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. So please take a moment with me to remember....


CATHERINE ANN
WIFE OF
E.B.H. NORTON,
DIED
April 27th 1850
Aged 38 Years
1 mo. & 23 d.s.

Mourn not for me
My husband and children dear
For I am not dead
But only sleeping here
~E.H. Shands


When compared to the loss of the dead, the loss of the living seems twice as tragic. The power to listen, the power to love another. How often we throw these things away or deny them. The monuments of our anger and fear seem so insurmountable, but they fall with no more force than the air in our words.

One day a different monument will close over the ones we love. And a lifetime of words will fail to cut that stone.

Time is streaming through your fingers. Don't squander it.

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Remember: Dr. William Darlington


The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will hold our memory.

We can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. So please take a moment with me to remember....


IN
MEMORY
OF
DR. WM. DARLINGTON
Born April 28th 1782.
Died April 23rd 1863.

Plantae Cestrienses,
quas
dilexit atque illustravit,
super Tumulum ejus
semper floreant

(My translation: Pitcher plants, which he loved and drew, will always bloom over his grave.)

Plate: By kind permission of his descendants,
the grave of
Dr. William Darlington
is under the care of
the Chester County Medical Society,
which was founded by him
in the year 1828.

Noted physician and botanist, Dr. William Darlington life's adventures included traveling to the East Indies, fighting in the War of 1812, establishing a natural history society, publishing books of botany, and serving as a Congressman. One of those eerie convergence moments came when I read that Dr. Darlington gave "the right and privilege to occupy his land for picnic purposes or pleasure grounds" to Judge Thomas Mellon, owner of the Ligonier Valley Railroad. That land eventually became Idlewild Park, an amusement park in western Pennsylvania that was a favorite place to visit not only for me, but also my parents as children. The park would not exist but for him.

Dr. Darlington had a pitcher plant named after him called a Darlingtonia. It looks like the carving on his gravestone.


Quite a bit came from this random find in a cemetery near West Chester, Pennsylvania.

Friday, March 07, 2008

Remember: Archibald McCall Holding



The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will hold our memory.

We can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. So please take a moment with me to remember....


Inscription:
Archibald
McCall
Holding
1862-1935

~~~
A touch of Ireland
Under a dead year's leaves
Dreaming of foam and oceans
Awaiting the blush of green

~~~

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Remember: Margaret Roberts


The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten.

We can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. So please take a moment with me to remember....


Inscription:
In
memory of
MARGARET ROBERTS.
Wife of John E. Roberts
Born June 27, 1803
Died November 28, 1879
Aged 76 years, 5 months & 1 day

Adieu my friends, weep not for me. Though often times my grace you see. But raise your minds to things above. Where all is joy and peace and love.


(Note: I did not plan this, but as I finished this post, I saw that Margaret died today. If you are the type of person to find signs in things, this one is hard to ignore.)


  St. Thomas Episcopal Church, Morgantown, Pennsylvania.

Friday, September 07, 2007

Remember: Rebecca Walker


The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten.

Let's give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined. Please take a moment with me to remember....


Inscription:
Loving Remembrance

REBECCA WALKER
Died June 21, 1906
AGE 60 YEARS

'Tis hard to break the tender cord
When love has bound the heart
'Tis hard, so hard, to speak the words
We must forever part
Dearest loved one, we must lay thee
In the peaceful grave's embrace
But thy memory will be cherished
'Til we see thy heavenly face.

Friday, June 15, 2007

Remember: Joseph Christie



The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about the voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten. Yet, we can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined.

So please take a moment with me to remember....


Inscription:
Suffer the children to come unto me
Joseph Christie
Son of Wm. W. L. and
Jennie Bennett
Born Sept. 27th, 1869
Died May 28th, 1872
In his 3rd Year


The porcelain toy-like ornaments and flowers are fixed to the stone. Perhaps the centerpiece was once daisies with the petals long disintegrated. Something about those object keep the presence of Joseph closer. I imagine him bored with his Sunday visit to the cemetery. I imagine him sitting down to play.




(Hibernia Methodist Church Est. 1841, Chester County, Pennsylvania)

Friday, June 01, 2007

May 31, 1889

I'd like to tell you a little story about my hometown of Johnstown, Pennsylvania. I took pictures during my visit back in October in anticipation of this post today.

Western Pennsylvania is a region of mountains, coal, and deep valleys. The cities became centers of iron and steel making, giving rise to the age of the robber barons. Pittsburgh was home to names like Carnegie, Mellon, Frick, and Knox.

The South Fork Fishing and Hunting Club was established near the towns of South Fork and St. Michael high in the mountains above the valley city of Johnstown. It was the playground of Pittsburgh's elite, and their cottages and clubhouse sat along the shores of Lake Conemaugh, a man-made lake two miles long and one mile wide.

The dam forming the lake had been part of a defunct canal system and had last been owned by the Pennsylvania Railroad. The Club altered and raised the dam. The spillway was blocked with screens to keep their prized fish from escaping. The soundness of the structure had long been questioned.

Beginning on May 28, 1889, a storm hit the region which dropped 6 to 10 inches of rain in 24 hours. Waters rose quickly, and soon water was spilling over the dam. All the inadequate safety measures failed, and the center of the earthen dam eroded. Four hundred acres of lake, 20 million tons of water, began emptying into the valley. The chief engineer could only watch.

(Standing on the breast of the dam and looking to the other side.)

The waters hit a viaduct crossing the downstream valley, and a new lake temporarily formed. When that viaduct failed, it was not a gradual release like the dam. It broke at once, sending a 60 foot wall of water with trees, houses, people, and animals roaring down the valley at 40 miles per hour.

(The position of the original dam.)

A stone railroad bridge still stands in Johnstown, which withstood the main wave. It didn't spare the city from wide destruction, however. In addition, a factory had been destroyed miles upstream, and spools of newly manufactured barbed wire mixed with the debris. At the stone bridge, a great debris field formed with many people becoming entangled in the barbed wire. Broken oil lamps lit a horrendous fire, and many people burned in the midst of the flood. In all, 2,209 died, including 99 entire families.

High in the hills overlooking Johnstown sits Grandview Cemetery. There, 777 unidentified victims were interred. I've always been struck by the rows and rows of blank stones. They form strange blinking patterns when you drive by.

Something about those empty stones haunts me. More than once, I sat at the foot of this monument after dark.

During those quiet nights, the moon glowed on the marble and mildewed white. I wish I had written my thoughts.

One of my ancestors was killed before the waters reached Johnstown. In a way, then, I suppose those waters touched me too. Thank you for taking a moment with me to remember him and hundreds upon hundreds of others who perished.

Friday, April 13, 2007

Margaret


************
Sept. 3, 1960

Dear Margie,

Mom arrived home O.K. She tells me you are looking for mail. Here is one that will take up some of your time.

The weather has been nice here for a few days. It's a pleasure. They tell me it is so beautiful up where you are. I can readily understand why you like staying up there.

Margie, you know my bull dog. I had to have him destroyed. It will be a month Oct. 5. He had dropsy and so full of water he could hardly walk. He was so small yet this apartment seems so large without him. I miss him so much. I had him 13 1/2 years. I can imagine I hear his little feet walk in the living room and it had me preparing him food. He was such a good dog. There will never be another one who will ever take his place. I will get another dog eventually, but not right now.

Well Margie, I think I will close. Keep well and enjoy the good air up where you are.

Sincerely and with love,
Grace A--

P.S. Please excuse the scribbling.
************
Sept. 3, 1960

Margie,

We arrived home safe and sound.

The house is still standing and needs a good cleaning.

Weather is nice here.

Love Mom R--
************

If you've been with me and The Clarity of Night for a while, you know that we have some mountain land in the Poconos/Catskills. In 2004, we added an important parcel to our forest so we could have direct road access. This parcel contains an abandoned cottage, which we now own. Margaret lived there alone, and alone is how she died. These are letters taken from her ransacked things.

I see her lying there with her hat and shoe, and no one is left to help her. No one is left to care.

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

Remember: Martha Young



The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about our voices struggling to endure. Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten. Yet, we can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined.

So please take a moment with me to remember...


Inscription:
MARTHA YOUNG
wife of
J.B. BROOMELL
NOVEMBER 1, 1818
MAY 26, 1907

I have fought the good fight, I have finished
my course, I have kept the faith. 2nd Tim. 4.7


I salute you, Martha, for having the strength to live a life of no regrets.
--Jason




Hephzibah Baptist Church, Chester County, Pennsylvania

Friday, October 20, 2006

Remember: W. Brown


The Remembrance Series: When I walk among old graves, I think about our voices straining against the grind of years.

Someday not even stone will protect us from being forgotten. Not even our final words will be left to call out to the people flashing by. Yet, we can give these voices a little more life in a way they never could have imagined.

So please take a moment with me to remember...


Inscription:
IN
MEMORY
OF W. BROWN
DIED AUGUST
1844 AGED 75


(This folk art stone is carved from local field stone. Note the guidelines, decorated A's, and inverted 4's in 1844. Surviving stones of this type are uncommon and always draw me when I find them.)



(Hibernia Methodist Church Est. 1841, Chester County, Pennsylvania)

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Remember: Reuben Townsley


We cling to the strength of stone to fight the fear of being forgotten. So please take a moment to remember...

Inscription:
FATHER
REUBEN TOWNSLEY,
DIED
OCT. 30, 1891.
AGED 80 YEARS.

A precious one from us has gone,
A voice we loved is stilled;
A place is vacant in our home,
Which never can be filled.


~*~*~*~*~



(Hibernia Methodist Church Est. 1841, Chester County, Pennsylvania)

Friday, August 04, 2006

Remember: Bump Gardiner


We cling to the strength of stone to fight the fear of being forgotten. So please take a moment to remember...

Inscription:

BUMP GARDINER

He sits high atop a hill in a curious cemetery overlooking the West Branch of the Delaware River. Only his name is carved in the natural stone. A stone shaped like his name.

We laughed when we saw it. But it was a good-natured laugh, an appreciative laugh. I don't know if I would choose a simple smile as my legacy to the world, but I salute his spirit. I imagine him skipping the mountain tops. A legend in his own time.

(St. Paul the Apostle Cemetery, Delaware County, Hancock, New York)

Monday, June 19, 2006

Remember: Thomas Drew Bachlott


We cling to the strength of stone to fight the fear of being forgotten. Will you listen to their voices with me? Will you take a moment to remember?

Inscription:
THOMAS DREW
Son of
John R. & Mollie F.
Bachlott
Born
Mar. 22, 1886,
Died
Sept. 7, 1886.
Darling.

Sleep little darling sleep
Not in thy cradle bed
Not on thy mother's breast
But with the quiet dead


(Thank you to Jeff, who sent me this cold breath of the past from his trip to Georgia. Perhaps in the comments he can tell us what it was like to reflect a moment in this place. Oak Grove in St. Mary's, Georgia.)

Coming Attractions: Look for the opening of the "Midnight Road" Short Fiction Contest on Wednesday!! Get ready to spread the word. Amazon Gift Certificate Prizes: 1st Place $35; 2nd Place $25; 3rd Place $15; 4th Place $10; 5th Place $5.

Friday, May 05, 2006

Remember: Mrs. John Wells, M.D.


Walk with me a moment
In the calming reach of the sun
Thousands of voices recorded
A lifetime, every one.


We cling to the strength of stone to fight the fear of being forgotten. Will you listen to their voices with me? Will you take a moment to remember?

Inscription:

MY
HUSBAND
JOHN WELLS, M.D.
HAVING FILLED HIS
MISSION OF TRUST AND
RESPONSIBILITY, DIED
AUGUST 15th 1871
AGED 43 YEARS


So much is poured into these words...but not about Dr. Wells. Can you hear her--the one who accepted the demands of his calling? She speaks of his mission and responsibility. They are fulfilled. Her claim, however, endures. She proclaims it to the world.

"MY husband."

Frozen in his prime. Never to be shared again.


(St. Peter's United Church of Christ, West Pikeland Township, Chester County, Pennsylvania)

Friday, March 17, 2006

A Parting in Spring



Inscription:
LOUISA IREY
DIED
May 6, 1866
AGED
53 Yrs, 11 Mo. & 23 D's

Farewell companion of my
youth, farewell;
thou'st left me lonely in this
world of pain.
O may we meet in heavenly bliss
to dwell.


~~~~~

I dedicate the first flower of spring I see
to Louisa Irey and her husband aggrieved.

~~~~~

(St. Peter's United Church of Christ, West Pikeland Township, Chester County, Pennsylvania)

NOTE: In honor of approaching spring and the stirrings of love it brings, my next serial fiction piece will be a romance. (Actually, make that paranormal romance. I know, I'm hopeless.)

Monday, November 28, 2005

Remember: Hannah Seright

We cling to the enduring strength of stone to fight the fear of being forgotten.

So please take a moment to remember:
Hannah Seright, who died in 1861. An extraordinary achievement-to reach the age of 102. And a curse. She spent 44 of them without her husband William.

The deeper, more bold inscription for Hannah seems almost a relief, and the brevity of words impersonal, as if she knew the loneliness of one who outlives the last of her mourners.

Inscription:
In Memory of
William Seright
who departed this Life
April the 20th A.D. 1817
Aged 65 Years
Let me die the Death of the righteous
and let my last end be like his

ALSO
of his wife
HANNAH SERIGHT
died Oct. 1861
in the 102nd year of her age.

(Forks of the Brandywine Presbyterian Church, West Brandywine Township, Chester County, Pennsylvania)